I want to thank everyone for the suggestions. Since the exhaust fell off of two of the cars she got one fixed and the kid to the eye doctor to her contacts for school.
So last week for the anniversary dinner I smoked a brisket and the bacon wrapped potatoes and onions were a hit.

Today was the birthday dinner of baby back ribs and they wanted more bacon wrapped potatos and vadalia onions.
So I should be cleared for the Gravelrama